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Id ESLPod_0194_CN
Episode Id ESLPod 194
Episode Title An Unwanted House Guest
Title An Unwanted House Guest
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In the U.S., it is normally up to a "host," or someone who entertains other people, to invite someone to stay in their house. It's not considered polite to ask if you can stay in someone's house, unless you are a member of their family or a very close friend. You can "hint," or suggest in an indirect way, that you would like to stay in their home, but asking directly would be considered impolite.

There are a few things that you can do to be a good houseguest.

Don't be a "freeloader," or someone who expects others to pay for them. Offer to take your hosts out to dinner or to cook them a meal. Offer to pay for any long distance calls and any costs for entertainment, such as tickets for the theater or a sporting event.

Bring your own supplies. Don't expect to use your hosts' shampoo or toothpaste, and if you plan to stay more than one or two days, buy your own groceries, such as milk and bread.

Offer to help around the house, such as wash dishes after dinner. Don't expect your hosts to "wait on you," or do things for you as though they were your servants.

Bring a gift to thank them for letting you stay in their home. For example, you can bring them a bottle of wine, some chocolates, or something special from the city you come from. You can give them the gift when you arrive, when you prepare to leave, or send it to them soon after your stay.

And, finally, don't overstay your welcome!

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