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reciprocate verb Reciprocate, retaliate, requite, and return all mean "to give back," usually in kind or in quantity. Reciprocate implies a mutual or equivalent exchange or a paying back of what one has received ("We reciprocated their hospitality by inviting them to our beach house"). Retaliate usually implies a paying back of an injury or offense in exact kind, often vengefully ("She retaliated by spreading equally nasty rumors about them"). Requite implies a paying back according to one's preference, and often not in an equivalent fashion ("He requited her love with cold indifference"). Return implies simply a paying or giving back ("returned their call" or "return good for evil"). 1 : to give and take mutually2 : to return in kind or degree3 : to make a return for something done or given4 : to move backward and forward alternately

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April 17, 2017 rih-SIP-ruh-kayt It was kind of Jake to give us a ride to the airport, and we'd like to find a way to reciprocate the favor."The covenant only works if each partner, as best as possible, puts the other's needs above his or her own, with the understanding that the other will reciprocate." — David Brooks, The New York Times, 7 Mar. 2017

Word	reciprocate
Date	April 17, 2017
Type	verb
Syllables	rih-SIP-ruh-kayt
Etymology	Reciprocate, retaliate, requite, and return all mean "to give back," usually in kind or in quantity. Reciprocate implies a mutual or equivalent exchange or a paying back of what one has received ("We reciprocated their hospitality by inviting them to our beach house"). Retaliate usually implies a paying back of an injury or offense in exact kind, often vengefully ("She retaliated by spreading equally nasty rumors about them"). Requite implies a paying back according to one's preference, and often not in an equivalent fashion ("He requited her love with cold indifference"). Return implies simply a paying or giving back ("returned their call" or "return good for evil").
Examples	It was kind of Jake to give us a ride to the airport, and we'd like to find a way to reciprocate the favor. "The covenant only works if each partner, as best as possible, puts the other's needs above his or her own, with the understanding that the other will reciprocate." — David Brooks, The New York Times, 7 Mar. 2017
Definition	1 : to give and take mutually 2 : to return in kind or degree 3 : to make a return for something done or given 4 : to move backward and forward alternately

Return Implies Paying Back Reciprocate Give Kind Equivalent