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CBT Technique Downward arrow technique - core beliefs (a tool to help uncover the belief systems that influence behavior and mood):

1.   Write down a thought that has been bothering you.
2.   Ask yourself “What does this mean about me?”
3.   Keep going until you get to the underlying core belief.


For example:
My thought: My friend was rude to me when she blurted out a secret I had told her.
What does this mean about me? It means that she doesn’t care about me.
What does that mean about me? It means that she isn’t really my friend.
What does that mean about me? It means that I don’t have good friends that respect and care about me properly.
What does that mean about me? It means that there is something wrong with me where people don’t respect or care about me?
What does that mean about me? I am not worth caring about or respecting.
Core belief: I am not worth caring about.

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